June 11, 2014

A Home of his Own: Transition of Vijay Patnaik - A Sibling Perspective

 Dr. Sumeeta Patnaik is the co-guardian and co-conservator of Vijay Patnaik. She is currently employed at INTO-Marshall as the Academic English Coordinator. Dr. Patnaik is a graduate of Marshall University with a Doctorate of Education.

The transition of an autistic sibling from a family home to their own home is always traumatic for the family. It is especially difficult for the non-autistic sibling, who often takes the role of a caregiver, to allow his or her autistic sibling to leave the family home. The relationship between these siblings is especially strong, with a loving bond that lasts for a lifetime. 
 
Yet a well-planned transition can effectively allow both siblings to seamlessly continue their relationship while allowing both siblings to mature and make personal progress. Supports are the key to a successful transition with both siblings receiving support from family members, mental health professionals, and members of the community. 
 
It was difficult for me to allow my brother, Vijay, to leave home and transition to his new home as I worried about the quality of his care and was concerned that he would feel disconnected from his family. Nevertheless, the proper supports allowed Vijay to successfully transition to his home, and our relationship has deepen as a result. For four years, prior to his transition, my family and I worked to try and purchase a home of his own for Vijay. We felt that this transition would allow Vijay to mature as a person while allowing his family the comfort of knowing that he was well-secured in his own home.
 
Vijay’s transition to his home began after the death of our father, Dr. Dhirendranath Patnaik, in July 2012. My inheritance, from my father, provided me with an unexpected income that would allow me to create a special needs trust and purchase a home for Vijay under that trust. Our family worked with Vijay’s support team at Prestera Center to create a transitional plan for Vijay. The plan included maintenance of his home, becoming acquainted with his neighbors, and a staff support plan that would allow them to best assist Vijay in his home. By December, Vijay moved into his home, and we celebrated a Vijay-style Christmas there!
 
Since his transition two years ago, Vijay has taken ownership of his home. He is well-liked by his neighbors, and he often has friends over for dinner. Working with his staff, we have been able to maintain his home and create a supportive environment that best caters to meeting Vijay’s needs. Vijay’s transition required a team effort, and with support from Prestera center, Vijay’s family was able to provide him with a home of his own. We hope to continue to support Vijay in his home for many years to come.

 

 

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